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For manySims 4players, romance is a core playthrough mechanic. Whether your goal is to complete a romance scenario, find true love, or complete the100 Babies Challenge, the odds are you will need to master romance at some level.
Luckily, for Love Bug Simmers the world over, the Lovestruck Expansion is the perfect way to dive into more passionate romances. And if just finding true love isn’t enough, you’re able to now help other sims find their soulmates with the new Romance Consultant career path. Here’s everything you need to know to get your sims falling in love in no time.

How To Start The Romance Consultant Career
Before you can startsetting your Sims up with the partner of their dreams, youfirst need to havetheSims 4 Lovestruckpack downloaded. Once you have access to Lovestruck, you canhave your Sim join the Romance Consultant Careerin the same way they would join any other career.
Have your Simopen their phoneandselect the career tab (the briefcase icon). From here, you may scroll through the career list until you seeRomance Consultant.Select this careerand your Sim will start out as a ‘Romance Newbie’ Romantic Consultant.

Romance Consultant Career Requirements
There arevery few requirementsfor beginning the Romance Consultant career and the only item you will absolutely need is acomputer.However, there are a few methods and items to use toincrease your promotion speedand boost overall career performance.
Have A Computer, Speaker, And Television
Like with most careers in the Sims 4, you willneed access to a computerfor yourDaily Promotion tasks. Otherwise, you won’t need any special equipment to level your Sim’s Romance Consultant career.
You can find computers onpublic lots such as libraries. You can also purchase a computer for your Sim’s home. However, if a computer is outside of your Sim’s budget, you can use a pre-existing computer on a public lot or add one to a more convenient public lot where thebuild budget is infinite.

While not required to complete the career, your Sims will also benefit from havingaccess to a speaker and television.
You won’t need to use the speaker or TV if your Sim goes to work in person, but if your Sim isworking from home, their at-home tasks will involvewatching Telenovelas and listening to the Romance Station.

Utilize Skill Resources And Level Skills Early
Arguably, the best way to get your Sims promoted quickly is to start the Romance Consultant Career with yourRomance Skill pre-leveled.
you’re able to level your Sim’s Romance Skill easily byparticipating in Romance interactionswith other Sims. These interactions are usually under the Romance tab in your Sims' chat radial and are marked with aHeart Bouquet icon.

Trydating, flirting, or progressing your romantic relationships as far as they can go.
If you want tomaximize your Sim’s effectivenessas a Relationship Counselor, it’s best tonurture a healthy relationship(or a few healthy relationships) as the Counselor Sim.

You probably wouldn’t trust a chronically single person for dating advice, and the same goes in the Sims. Aromantically satisfied Simmakes for a better Romance Counselor as they willmore frequently experience Flirty moodletsand will have abetter reactionoverall to romantic encounters.
As you nurture your Romance Counselor’s relationships, you will also be using Romance Interactions thatincrease the Romance Skill over time. The faster and more successfully you can improve your Sims' relationships, the faster their Romance Skill will increase as well.
Get In The Mood For Romance
Another great way to improve your Sims' performance is to make sure they arein the mood for romancewhen they are completing career tasks oron their way to work.
attempt to send your Sims to work with positive moodlets likeFlirty, Very Flirty, or Confident. These moodlets willboost your Sims' performanceat work and make career interactions easier when engaging with other Sims. Doing this can be as easy as having your Sim kiss their partner goodbye before work.

You canput your Sim in the moodby listening to theRomance Station, taking aSteamy Shower, watching theRomance Channel,drinking romance moodlet teas and mixed drinks, or by smoking romantic concoctions at theBubble Machine.
Have your Simexperiment with substancesaround the world to see which ones put them into a Flirty mood. Theseaphrodisiacs are keyto making sure your Romance Consultant Sim is in the right headspace to do their job.

Having your Romance Consultant Sim in a Flirty or Very Flirty mood will alsoincrease their Romance Skill more quickly, which is necessary for career promotion.
The Best Traits For A Romance Consultant Sim
The Sims 4 Lovestruck introduced theLovebug trait, which is by far thebest trait to give your Romance ConsultantSim.
The Lovebug Trait makes your Sim obsessed with all things love and romance. They willbecome Flirty more easily, have aneasier time falling in love, and willgain more powerful positive moodletswhen interacting with loved ones or engaging in romantic behaviors.
The Lovebug trait greatlyincreases your Sim’s Romance Skillprogression and speed.
Giving your Sims theRomantic traitwill alsoincrease their chances of becoming Flirty or Very Flirtyand will likewise increase the rate at which they earn Romance Skill. However, beware of this trait as it willmake your Sims become Sadwhen they haven’t interacted romantically in a while.
If you aren’t going to fully commit to having your Sim be afull-time romantic, the Romantic trait may not be the right choice for your Sim, as you will need to engage in consistent romantic interactions.
Romance Consultant Career Levels
The basic branch of the Romance Career hasseven career levels. To reach level seven, you will need to level not only your Romance Skill but also yourLogic and Charisma Skills.
Becauseyou need Logic and Charisma Skillsto specialize in anew branch at career level eight, you should invest in items that help your Sim build Logic and Charisma. Try practicing speeches, giving compliments, playing card and board games, and researching to level these skills.
1
$20/hr
2
$34/hr
3
$48/hr
$440
4
$64/hr
$610
5
$80/hr
6
$97/hr
$1343
7
$145/hr
Matchmaker Career Branch Levels
Upon reaching Career Level Eight, you’re able to choose to specialize in one of two career branches: theMatchmaker branch or the Relationship Counselorbranch.
If you choose to become a Matchmaker, you will need tolevel up your Charisma Skillalongside your Romance Skill.
The best way to level up Charisma is to complete actions and interactions that aremarked with the Sunglasses iconin your Sims' speech radial or when interacting with objects like the mirror.
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Research Date Locations on a computer
$210/hr
9
$320/hr
$2395
10
$402/hr
The Matchmaker Branch is theonly way to earn the Heart to Heart trait, and you won’t be able to earn this through the Relationship Counselor branch of the career.
The Heart To Heart trait gives your Sim aboost when around happy couples.They’ll receive apositive moodletwhen in the presence of couples experiencing romantic harmony. Isn’t it just fabulous when you can help two Sims find love?
Relationship Counselor Career Branch Levels
If you choose to send your Sim down the path of Relationship Counseling, you will need tolevel your Logic Skill.After all, Sims in a relationship crisis need a counselor with the problem-solving skills that they lack.
The best way to level the Logic Skill is toplay board games, research, debate, or perform actions marked by thechess piece icon. An easy way to improve Logic at home is tobuy a card tableor chess board.
Research Romantic satisfaction on a computer
$195/hr
$275/hr
$2365
$395/hr
Youwon’t earn as much moneyhourly as a Relationship Counselor, but you willearn more Build Mode itemsfor completing level ten of the Relationship Counselor Career.
You alsowon’t earn the Heart To Heart Traitby following the Relationship Counselor branch.